Give and Give Again
They say in any good relationship it is all about give and take, but what about if you focus on giving vs taking?
Is it possible that the law of sowing and reaping will occur naturally anyway?
Learn to find ways to do things for your other half that no one else can do better, this could be anything from cooking a meal,to giving them a unique foot massage.
Become to them the crucial element in their life which makes their life more than good.