They say in any good relationship it is all about give and take, but what about if you focus on giving vs taking?

Is it possible that the law of sowing and reaping will occur naturally anyway?

Learn to find ways to do things for your other half that no one else can do better, this could be anything from cooking a meal,to giving them a unique foot massage.

Become to them the crucial element in their life which makes their life more than good.

For those who are not married, and are searching for their soul mate via dating sites, how much is too much when it comes to surfing around on these sites, especially at work? Have a read of this

An Air New Zealand employee fired after being caught spending up to a third of his working hours accessing internet sites, including dating and online chat services, was unjustifiably dismissed, the Employment Relations Authority awarded him $2,000.

Now that is nuts! I mean a person surfing around while their on lunch.. yeah maybe ok.. but a third of your work hours.. the guy must be in desperate times. ;0

Everyone remembers the funny movie with Mel Gibson called " What do women Want? " he manages through a freak accident to hear womens thoughts, through this he begins to learn how much the differ in their thoughts compared to men.

Having been married now for 10 years, I have learnt a lot from being around my wife and listening to her, plus watching the way she interacts and responds differently to me.

So for those who are married and for those who are looking to meet someone it would be great if guys could get a rough idea of what women are looking for. If anyone cares to share a tip of two.. feel free use the comments.